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The G-spot was discovered by Ernest Grafenberg, MD who published his findings in a 1950 article entitled "The Role of Urethra in Female Orgasm."
When unstimulated, the G-spot is generally small and flaccid, approximately the size of a bean. When a woman is aroused, however, this area becomes more pronounced. It swells and becomes more like a ridge than does the surrounding tissue in the vagina. Stimulation of the Grafenberg G-spot of course may lead to sexual arousal and orgasm.
The infamous Grafenberg Spot, better known as the G-Spot, is an area roughly the size of a quarter located on the anterior surface, or "top front" of the vagina (along the urethra), that when stimulated, can create deep, powerful and relaxing orgasms!
It is hypothesized that the G-spot is either a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris, or a gland (series of glands) that produces lubrication. It is believed by a growing number of experts that the reason stimulation of this area causes a "push out" orgasm, even female ejaculation, is that it has evolved as a trigger point for childbirth. The infant's head pushes on this precise spot during delivery, seeming to trigger the final phase of pushing/delivery. This translates, during normal sexual stimulation, into a more significant contraction of the vagina.
The G-spot may not be just one discrete spot. In fact, some science writers such as Natalie Angier contend that it is merely the deep nerves of the clitoris as they pass through the tissue to connect with the spinal column. The clitoris has deep roots and may in fact change in size and slightly change in location as hormone levels fluctuate throughout a woman's life.
To be exact, the G-spot is located on the anterior, or front wall of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. If you refer the accompanying photo above and to the right, you will see clearly the location of the Grafenberg Spot.
The G-spot can be found by inserting one or two fingers in the vagina with the palm facing the pubic bone (basically towards the back side of the navel). Gently bend your fingers 'forward' and stroke the anterior wall of the vagina, and you will begin to feel a raised spot or series of ridges. This raised area or series of ridges is not always present, however, the woman may still find this motion extremely pleasurable.
Some women actually find that such action can bring on an urge to urinate as well as a feeling of intense pleasure. Simply stroking this area, or spot, with varying degrees of pressure will tell you pretty quickly if you've got the Grafenberg G-spot or not.
The result of G-spot stimulation varies wildly from one woman to the next, with some women reporting unbelievable orgasms, while still others say it causes them to expel fluid (female ejaculate). Some claim to the experience does little more than result in a slight urge to urinate.
The G-spot responds more to pressure than simply to touch. Unlike the clitoris, gently stroking is not likely to get any results. If you are looking for results, results being orgasmic release, then one has to compress the flesh to find it, and then yu gotta work it good!
When you locate and stimulate the Grafenberg G Spot appropriately, some women will actually reach such intense levels of sexual release that they enter into repetitive orgasmic cycles that can include multiple ejaculations. If you are a heterosexual male and have never experienced your woman having multiple ejaculating orgasms while you are having sex with her, then you simply have not lived my friend!
There are hundreds of adult products on the market claiming to stimulate the G-spot. Dildos, vibrators, vibrating dildos and sex toy products we don't even have names for. These range from curved dildos to angled vibrators, all of which are designed to reach the anterior wall of the vagina more easily than you or your partner's fingers are able.
Every woman is different, so finding the right adult toy product to accomplish successful stimulation of the Grafenberg Spot may take a little research and some time. It may also take a whole lot fo trial and error experimentation, but that is the FUN part!
Once you know where exactly where her Grafenberg G-spot is located, you can then try using your penis on it. However, for good G-spot orgasm, she may prefer your hand. In the missionary position, the penis simply may not stimulate the G-spot enough to be of any use. Other sex positions however, such as the one where the women draws her knees close to her chest, may increase the chances for a G-spot orgasm.
Yes,
Grafenberg claims to have discovered the G-spot, resulting in a sexual revolution
for better sex. But in fact, ancient cultures accepted what we've only recently
"found".
We know that as early as the 4th century B.C., writings have been found that speak of the difference between a woman's "red and white fluids", and that American Indian folklore make mention of the "mixing of male and female fluids".
During the 20th century, however, Western culture adopted the belief that women were incapable of such intense orgasm, other than through clitoral manipulation. This obsurd belief was reinforced by Masters and Johnson when their research studies claimed that a woman's clitoris was the only source of female pleasure. Of course we knew all along that this simply was not the case, because many women were capable of non-clitoral orgasms.
It wasn't until 1950 when an article by a Berlin gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg discussed the G-spot area. In his original work it was reported that some women had a spot on the inside of the front wall of the vagina which, when firmly stimulated could produce intense orgasm. Even ejaculation of something thicker and slicker than urine during the strongest contractions of their orgasms was reported by some!
There was little to no further research done on G-spot stimulation, or female orgasm and ejaculation, until Perry and Whipple's 1978 documentation and extensive study which confirmed the article of Dr. Grafenberg. Today, most sexologists now believe every woman has a G-spot. Hoever, some women's G-spot may be unresponsive from a lack of stimulation.
Hmmm, so that means that even the most unresponsive women can be made to learn to be responsive, by proper Grafenberg G-spot stimulation.
Beverly Whipple, coauthor of The G-Spot, says there are two reasons the "spot" was overlooked by so many physicians: "First, because it's on the anterior (front) wall of the vagina, which is an area that's not palpated, and second, when it is palpated you get a sexual response and doctors are trained not to stimulate their patients sexually. But the gynecologists who palpated it with our direction all found it and said 'My goodness! It's there! You're right!' "
In the end, every physician who examined the area not only found it, they reported back to the researchers that they subsequently had found it in every woman they examined!
As you have seen, it is now known that women can in fact experience two completely different kinds of orgasm. Surprising to some, this is not a clitoral vs. vaginal issue as some have reported.
1) The most common type of female orgasm is the well known clitoral orgasm. Clitoral orgasms also can involve the vagina since the clitoral stimulation also produces contractions of the pubococcygeal (PC) muscle supporting the pelvic floor. The pelvic floor of course is where "vaginal" contractions are felt.
2) The second type of orgasm that can be experienced by women is the G-spot and Uterine orgasm. G-spot stimulation results in orgasmic contractions around the uterus, which is several inches above the pelvic floor.
The most research into female orgasm has shown that women who can orgasm both clitorally as well as via the g-spot or uterine, generally experience much deeper, more powerful blended orgasm, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.
"There is no question in my mind that I experience two distinctly different types of orgasm. With the G-Spot orgasms, I tend to feel my vaginal walls contracting and fluid being expelled, sometimes in spasmic repeating cycles expelling large volumes of fluid."
" My clitoral orgasms sometimes involve the expelling of fluid or they can be dry, but always result in my uterus contracting, but not my vaginal walls. Both types of orgasms can result in either whole body or localized experiences. In essence, there is a third type of orgasm, and that is when I experience both the orgasms I've described above simultaneously, and that is an experience there are not words to describe!"
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Links to female urethral ejaculation information:
1. The Paraurethral, or "Skene's Glands" in Scientific Literature - Good for anyone curious enough to want to see what Skene’s Glands look like and where they are located. Significant, is the fact that these glands open not only to the exterior but several ducts open directly inside the urethra and into the upper vaginal wall as well.
2. Female Ejaculation and The G-Spot - Very good website, containing lots of information, diagrams, including “how to find the "G" spot.
3. Articles and Materials about the G-Spot, Orgasm, and Female Ejaculation - Excellent articles and materials on female ejaculation (urethral) with a report on an experiment in which women known to be ejaculators were tested using catheterization to determine where the fluids expelled actually came from, one woman actually producing 900 ml. of ejaculate. The conclusion was that the fluid expelled was principally from the bladder but was significantly different from urine collected before orgasm.
4. "Retrograde Ejaculation": a New Theory of Female Ejaculation - Indicates that the urethral glands are homologues of the male prostate that most women expel such fluids in amounts from so small as to be unnoticeable to them, up to 50 ml., and that most of the fluid ejaculated is urine.
5. Effects of Clitoral and GSpot Stimulation on Pelvic Muscles - Effects of Clitoral and GSpot Stimulation on Pelvic Muscles - pretty technical stuff, but a good way to see the differences in intensity between clitoral and “G” spot orgasms by electromyographic recordings. Also a few links to other pages of Kegel info.
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