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BDSM is not a new phenomenon; though in the past years it has been increasing in popularity as people, more and more, feel comfortable expressing their sexuality in more creative ways.

BDSM is a term that refers to a number of things, generally: bondage & discipline, Domination & submission, and sadism & masochism. These different facets can be combined, with or without adult sex toys, in many different ways for maximum pleasure.

Safe, Sane, and Consensual

The key to BDSM play is to keep it within the bounds of what you know so that you can play safely, and to make sure your partner consents to what you have planned. This is good incentive to read books and take workshops to expand your knowledge base.

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Bondage & Discipline
» A subgroup of BDSM which is mainly involved with making the submissive or bottom physically helpless and applying sensory stimuli. Sensual discipline is basically power play (think “naughty school boy”). One partner assumes the role of the authority figure (be that police officer, professor, etc) for the purpose of distributing punishment.
» The Adult Sex Toys used for restraining are handcuffs, nylon web cuffs or leather restraints, saran wrap, bondage tape, or just plain rope. Other great accessories to restraints are blindfolds or masks, hoods, gags, chastity devices, and collars.
» Discipline also often includes floggers, whips, paddles, and any other spanking materials that you like. Wooden spoons are handy for this, as are leather belts.

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Domination & Submission
» The power relationship between a Top or Dominant and a bottom or submissive. The submissive gives up some degree of control to the Dominant in what can be a 24/7 relationship or just for the evening.
» The Adult Sex Toys involved with this sort of play may include all those used in bondage & discipline.

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Sadism & Masochism
» Sadism is the desire to inflict pain while masochism is the enjoyment of having pain inflicted on you. Pain causes your body to release endorphins which cause a natural high.
» Adult Sex Toys used in S&M may include floggers, paddles, whips, crops, big dildos as well as nipple clamps (or clamps used on other parts of the body), and pretty much anything else you can think of that would allow you to give a controlled amount of pain.

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Tips for a beginners bondage toy-box
» Buy quality adult sex toys, it’s hard to do a job with poor quality tools. You don’t have to invest a ton of money into expensive adult sex toys right off the bat, but if you’re interested in spanking then treat yourself to one well made paddle, slapper, or flogger so that you can get the best results. Nothing ruins playtime like unsafe or poorly made toys.
» Inform yourself. Read books on subjects you’d like to know more about or attend workshops. Many places have workshops offered by local BSDM groups and you usually don’t have to be a member to attend them. For information on how to use specific adult sex toys, books like Toy Gasms are essential.
» Be creative. If you can’t afford every adult sex toy or piece of bondage equipment try using things you already have, you can buy the kinky item later. Nice as it is to have shiny metal clamps for pinching skin, clothespins work almost as well, and even if you buy the shiny metal adjustable clamps later on, you may find that the clothespins stay in your toy-box anyways. Wooden spoons are nice to use interchangeably with leather slappers and paddles too.
» If you have children in your house, you may want to invest in something to keep your adult sex toys and big dildos safely locked away.

Remember, it’s all about having fun!